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We focus

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We focus on learning.

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We focus on learning,
we’re the Hazel Wolf gang.

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We respect

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ourselves and

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we respect ourselves

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That's the wolf pack

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pact.

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Wolf pack pact

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Awooo!  Awooo!

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Good morning.

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Welcome.

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Good to see you. Hey!

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Advisory class is
right up there, Nyahoak.

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You're second grade, huh?

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I’m new here.

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Josie!

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Good to see you, buddy.

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We work together

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with one another

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include each other

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That’s the wolf pack pact.

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Awooo!

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Good catch!

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Guys, I need to talk
to you for a second.

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In a game you're going to get angry.

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What is your strategy to
deal with those emotions?

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When I was a kid,
I used to call people cheaters

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when I was losing. And I cried.

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I do not want any one of you guys cry.

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There is no referee in this sport.

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It means that I'm not getting involved

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if you disagreement.

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You have to learn the rules.

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I did soccer for years

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and I thought it was the
best sport in the world

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until I discovered Ultimate Frisbee.

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There is no referee,
they’re boys and girls

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and it's all action.

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I try to recruit the kids
that need coping skills.

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The kids that have to deal
with some strong emotions.

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Ow he kicked me!

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I’m not a coach.

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I'm a counselor.

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The first thing Jashmid
said when he came in

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he said, “I like to teach through play.

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I'd rather be out on the field.

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I'm going to be out there at recess,

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that's where I teach kids.”

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We have kids who have
come from countries at war

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and have lost family members

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and have been in refugee camps.

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We have kids who have been abused.

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There are certain students

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you look at them and you have no idea

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how they got through what they did.

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As soon as the parents here
got to know Jamshid,

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they just pulled him in.

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He's always asking

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for permission to leave

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and go help a family with something.

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Sometimes we exclude certain populations

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because their families are
so busy just surviving.

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If I don't give them ride
or find the ride for them,

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they're not going to get a chance

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to participate in
after-school activities.

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Kelem, when did you last
talk to your mom?

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She's in Ethiopia, right?

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Two, three weeks ago.

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How’s she doing?

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She's good.

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Yeah.

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Nyahoak, when was the last time

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you talked to your dad?

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Three weeks ago?

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Is he still living in Alaska?

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Yeah.

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Do you miss him?

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So, Nyahoak, what’s at home?

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Is your mom gonna cook?

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What’s she gonna make?

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Rice.

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That’s my favorite!

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How about you, Kelem. Injera?

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Yes.

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Are you serious?

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Yeah.

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How about you, Yusuf?

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Same as Kelem.

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Injera?

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Yeah.

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We're going to have that for dinner.

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Anybody would like to
have some chocolate?

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Who would like to open it?

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Okay, open it and take one
and pass to the one, one only!

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Thank you Mr. Jamshid.

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Who’s opening it?

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Nyahoak should open it.

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He's very nice today.

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Just a little bit? Oh, no.

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That's too big.

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Look, that beach.

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I live on the other side.

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I swim from there to here and back.

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No, you’re lying.

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Every morning in the summertime.

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You swim all the way from there to here?

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It's nothing.

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I’m a horrible swimmer,
I can’t even swim.

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You have to practice.

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Nobody is good at anything
if you don't do it.

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I'd read about him

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about 20 years ago.

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This guy would run

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mountain trails, do hundred-mile runs

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and a little bit later than that

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I was hearing about him playing Ultimate

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with these inner-city kids.

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From KUOW 94.9 Seattle

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This spring, the kids and their coach

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at Seattle's Bailey Gatzert
Elementary School

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beat the older, bigger kids

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the giant middle schoolers

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to claim one of the
largest Ultimate Frisbee

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tournaments in the world.

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Over 20 years, my schools
had so many great teams.

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Every year we set a goal
to go to Spring Reign.

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We were at this tournament.

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And met this person that
was on his team once

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and she said, “Always listen to
what Jamshid has to say.

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You will win.”

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And they did listen.

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So now they won.

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Yeah, it’s true.

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This is a great drill for
you guys to be doing.

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Pio, you go.

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Nyahoak! How’s the superstar doing?

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Pio, get open.

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Right here, right here!

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Hold it guys, hold it.

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If the girls are not catching
the Frisbee, it’s not a score.

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All the girls have to touch the Frisbee.

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It's not just boy’s game.

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Without girls, we don't have a team.

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My turn to drink water.

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My turn.

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What?

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You just cut all of us.

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I'm thirsty, I need to drink.

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Doesn’t mean you have to cut all of us.

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Well can I cut you only?

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I cut you only. You go ahead.

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No, you also cut me too.

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Is it disrespectful
if I break the rules?

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It hurts your feelings?

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Oh, I gotta think...
I go back in the line.

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Don’t drink that! That’s chemicals.

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Thank you. Give sign of applause.

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Have you seen things that aren’t okay?

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On the playground?

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It’s not being nice.

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It’s not very nice — bullying.

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Some of the kids have been bullied.

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Our society is a big bully.

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Come on.

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Our children are learning these things

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and we have to help them

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have compassion and empathy.

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Oh, but my mom bought
these shoes for me.

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I like them.

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Can you please not say
anything about my shoes

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this is the only pair of shoes I have.

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It hurts my feelings.

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I’m going to tell my
teacher, Mr. Grandbois.

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Not to be laughing.

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Serious. You’re acting, role playing.

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Your mom bought it.

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My mom bought it for me.

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And I like them.

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And I like them.

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Can you please not make
any remarks about my shoes?

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These are all the emails that I missed,

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so many from yesterday.

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They just accepted our
bid for Spring Reign.

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So we got accepted.

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Yes?

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Okay, thank you.

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One of the kindergartners
is coming here.

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Ben, come on up here,

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have a seat.

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Ben, have a seat here.

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Tell me what's going on.

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Why not?

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Music?

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Have you seen Riverdancing,
or Irish dancing?

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No.

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This is not boring.

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I know sometimes when you start

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you don't know what to do, it’s boring.

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But when you learn it,
it’s such a good thing

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It’s  good for you.

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It's good for your soul.

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That is scrumptous.

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You’re just exploring it.

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You guys are brand new.

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You don't know how to eat spaghetti.

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These are all rescues from this year.

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They're not even one year old.

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I was living in Capitol Hill, Seattle

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and bought three chicks.

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All three of them became
roosters in a condominium.

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After two months,
they all started crowing.

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I received a big letter.

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Unfortunately, you cannot
have chickens here.

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When I came and I saw this house

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before I buy it, I went next door.

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I said, “Look, guys,
I'm trying to buy this.

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I'm a good neighbor,
never bother people,

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but I want to have chickens.

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That's the only thing I want to have.

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I want to have a garage to put my stuff,

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my bikes and kayaks
and all my toys there.

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And I'm all single and
I would never bother you.

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I promise you.”

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I always wanted to have
chickens in my life.

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That's the best friend.

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I was a very naughty kid.

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I had so much energy
and I always got in trouble

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because I couldn't sit down
and I still am like that.

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I came to U.S. from Iran to get my MBA

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and then I worked for six months,
made tons of money,

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but I was not happy seeing all these

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companies that we were doing

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their accounts,
that were just not honest.

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My family were not here.

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They were back in Iran

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and the Revolution was happening.

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The U.S. government required

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all the Iranian students
go report to INS.

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They thought we were a
threat to national security.

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Many people got deported.

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I was able to stay here
and get more education.

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I stay here.

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Oh, I touched it.

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Oh, she got it!

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I want to be a doctor

00:16:41.000 --> 00:16:43.377
because doctors get a lot of money

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and I want to get a lot of
money to raise a family.

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I’ve seen so much growth in her game.

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She’s getting respect from other kids.

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She's showing her own personality.

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No contact, Pio!

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Sam!

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Keshav!

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She’s barely touched
the disc, Pio — calm down!

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I will throw! Just a sec!

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What happened?

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You know what happened.

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Line up everybody. Listen!

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The whole thing is all about having fun.

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And if somebody doesn't
have fun, it’s not okay.

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[lots of talking]

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Stop yelling!

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Our team wasn’t ready

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because everybody was yelling at me.

00:18:06.168 --> 00:18:09.254
So I knew our team
wasn't focused and ready.

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But she wouldn’t pull it quick enough!

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But you have to make
sure that your team

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knows who is marking who.

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Look!  First of all,
we were never yelling.

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Uh, some people were.

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Okay, we might have been yelling.

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Some people were yelling.

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High five each other.

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You’re going to do it at
the end of the game again.

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Smile at each other,
they’re your friends!

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They’re your team!

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Guys I want to see some smiles!

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Smiling, thank you!

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Thank you and talk
to you later, bye bye.

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You guys go back to classroom, please.

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Why are you here?
You gotta be in the classroom.

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Go home today.

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Who’s going to take the little kids?

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Anella.

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No, your sister has homework club.
That’s the problem.

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I need to practice!

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You don’t need practice.

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Jamshid! I need to go to practice.

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I'm serious.

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She needs to work on her academics.

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Pio has to go take care of
the younger kids sometimes.

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He has to take the twins
home and watch them.

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And help his mom,
it’s a big responsibility.

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And it's just too much. He's only 11.

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He's a very busy kid.
Inside our household

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he helps us.

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You have to do it.

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It's so important, for your
sister to be successful.

00:19:53.984 --> 00:19:56.153
You understand that sometimes
she does it for you.

00:19:56.904 --> 00:19:58.071
The whole family helps.

00:19:58.071 --> 00:19:59.948
Come on, Pio, bro.

00:19:59.948 --> 00:20:01.450
Pio, you gotta be in
the classroom. 4 minutes.

00:20:01.450 --> 00:20:03.118
6 minutes. Thank you.

00:20:04.036 --> 00:20:05.871
I’m going to play, I’m going.

00:20:06.079 --> 00:20:07.289
You are not going to go with us.

00:20:07.289 --> 00:20:08.624
Yes I am.

00:20:09.875 --> 00:20:12.878
Eight dollars an hour was not enough.

00:20:12.878 --> 00:20:15.005
40 hours daytime.

00:20:15.005 --> 00:20:17.132
40 hours, night shift — graveyard

00:20:17.591 --> 00:20:18.884
was still not enough.

00:20:19.551 --> 00:20:24.556
In and out, one shelter,
two transitional housing

00:20:25.390 --> 00:20:29.144
and 7 to 8 different relatives houses,

00:20:30.229 --> 00:20:35.525
five years in struggle and
homeless and all that.

00:20:36.526 --> 00:20:39.112
And finally we got this place.

00:20:42.741 --> 00:20:44.701
I work graveyard shift

00:20:44.701 --> 00:20:48.413
in assisted living from
10 in the nighttime

00:20:48.413 --> 00:20:49.998
to 6:30 in the morning.

00:20:50.624 --> 00:20:53.293
Then I go and take a day shift.

00:20:53.293 --> 00:20:56.838
Most of the time I sleep
two and a half hours a day.

00:20:59.299 --> 00:21:02.010
I was born in American Samoa.

00:21:02.386 --> 00:21:05.264
It's a South Pacific island.

00:21:05.681 --> 00:21:07.724
My family was very poor.

00:21:07.724 --> 00:21:10.811
When I grow up,
graduate from high school,

00:21:10.811 --> 00:21:12.437
having a U.S. passport,

00:21:12.437 --> 00:21:14.856
I'm the only one can go out of country

00:21:14.856 --> 00:21:18.819
to support my family.

00:21:23.740 --> 00:21:27.494
My husband works more
than 14, 15 hours a day.

00:21:27.828 --> 00:21:29.913
Demolition, broke down buildings.

00:21:31.164 --> 00:21:35.168
He came here in America,
to support his parents.

00:21:35.168 --> 00:21:39.965
So we both have
two full responsibilities.

00:21:43.677 --> 00:21:46.388
We lost the oldest of my ten children.

00:21:47.347 --> 00:21:49.308
Her name is Tessa.

00:21:49.308 --> 00:21:52.436
She was having cancer for five years.

00:21:54.021 --> 00:21:56.023
She died because of the cancer

00:21:56.023 --> 00:21:59.818
that she had when she was 19.

00:22:00.485 --> 00:22:04.239
Yeah, it was last year.
Like in the summer.

00:22:06.366 --> 00:22:09.369
Pio and Tess, they really close.

00:22:10.245 --> 00:22:12.331
Pio was another biggest support

00:22:13.165 --> 00:22:14.833
to help her

00:22:14.833 --> 00:22:17.502
while she was going through
her chemotherapies.

00:22:19.004 --> 00:22:19.838
She helped me a lot

00:22:19.838 --> 00:22:23.008
but now that she's gone,
I have to do stuff on my own.

00:22:24.176 --> 00:22:25.635
Trying to figure out things.

00:22:27.054 --> 00:22:28.930
Sometimes I get easily mad.

00:22:29.306 --> 00:22:30.849
Yeah, whatever.

00:22:30.849 --> 00:22:32.017
S— you guys.

00:22:32.434 --> 00:22:35.520
I get distracted and I don't do my work.

00:22:36.104 --> 00:22:38.273
If you have bad behavior,
like our best player

00:22:38.440 --> 00:22:40.192
didn’t get a chance to play on Monday.

00:22:40.192 --> 00:22:43.570
So if he doesn't do his job
next week after spring break,

00:22:43.653 --> 00:22:44.905
he might not make it.

00:22:44.905 --> 00:22:47.616
It was a struggle for us,

00:22:48.575 --> 00:22:52.704
not only for Pio,
but for my two oldest daughters.

00:22:52.704 --> 00:22:54.873
They didn't do too good in school.

00:22:55.665 --> 00:22:59.294
It was not a happy

00:23:00.670 --> 00:23:02.005
like, still now.

00:23:06.426 --> 00:23:08.678
But because of Mr. Jamshid,

00:23:08.678 --> 00:23:12.057
They always feel safe
when they go to school.

00:23:15.894 --> 00:23:18.730
What? What?

00:23:21.942 --> 00:23:24.694
Jamshid I’m going to go
outside and enjoy the rain.

00:23:27.364 --> 00:23:33.245
Counseling helps everything.
He be able to make my son

00:23:34.413 --> 00:23:38.333
back to normal life.
Not to be still sadness.

00:23:57.686 --> 00:24:00.647
At the beginning when I started
working as a counselor,

00:24:01.231 --> 00:24:07.028
I had a lot of crises with
the families and kids.

00:24:07.028 --> 00:24:11.116
There was a child watch her
father had an argument

00:24:11.116 --> 00:24:12.409
with mom.

00:24:12.409 --> 00:24:16.788
The father said,
“What do you want me to do?

00:24:16.788 --> 00:24:18.373
Do you want me to kill myself?”

00:24:18.373 --> 00:24:20.333
She said, “Go ahead.
Do whatever you want to do.”

00:24:20.333 --> 00:24:21.751
He opened the cupboard,

00:24:21.751 --> 00:24:24.796
picked up a gun,
shot himself in front of the child,

00:24:25.422 --> 00:24:26.798
and mother.

00:24:30.051 --> 00:24:33.138
The next morning she's
sobbing in school.

00:24:33.555 --> 00:24:34.890
This is a deaf child.

00:24:34.890 --> 00:24:35.599
She can't talk.

00:24:35.599 --> 00:24:38.018
I mean, she can’t sign,
she can’t say anything.

00:24:38.393 --> 00:24:40.353
We take a walk. I hold her hand.

00:24:40.353 --> 00:24:42.397
I take her to preschool class.

00:24:42.397 --> 00:24:43.273
And I said,

00:24:43.273 --> 00:24:45.942
“Tell me why you've
been crying all morning.”

00:24:46.234 --> 00:24:50.113
and “What's wrong?”
And she said the story.

00:24:50.989 --> 00:24:52.908
“My dad is dead.”

00:24:57.162 --> 00:25:01.416
These things happen enough
that it affects your life.

00:25:03.585 --> 00:25:05.253
So I could not sleep.

00:25:07.130 --> 00:25:09.674
I would go swimming in the ocean.

00:25:09.966 --> 00:25:11.301
It was wintertime.

00:25:11.301 --> 00:25:14.554
I mean, swimming in the ocean
in wintertime, big waves.

00:25:14.554 --> 00:25:17.015
And, you know, you get
caught in one of those

00:25:17.015 --> 00:25:18.725
seven foot waves.

00:25:18.725 --> 00:25:20.227
It keeps you under the water

00:25:20.227 --> 00:25:21.895
collapses your lungs.

00:25:28.693 --> 00:25:30.779
I didn't know what to do.

00:25:30.779 --> 00:25:32.989
I told my friend Jack,
“I got to do something.”

00:25:34.616 --> 00:25:36.826
He said, “Let’s swim long distance.”

00:25:38.370 --> 00:25:39.746
The first one was three miles,

00:25:39.746 --> 00:25:41.331
and then next year was ten miles.

00:25:41.581 --> 00:25:43.625
And then next year was 28 miles.

00:25:43.833 --> 00:25:45.293
And then 100 miles,

00:25:45.293 --> 00:25:47.629
cross-country ski, downhill,
running, biking, kayaking,

00:25:49.464 --> 00:25:52.634
20 some years, every weekend
I did a hundred-mile race.

00:25:53.843 --> 00:25:57.222
I traveled around the
world for these events,

00:25:57.222 --> 00:25:58.807
and it helped me.

00:26:05.605 --> 00:26:07.023
Every time I did it,

00:26:07.023 --> 00:26:07.899
it felt like

00:26:07.899 --> 00:26:11.695
I take some of my pain away,
some of my kids pain away,

00:26:11.736 --> 00:26:12.988
and then I feel better.

00:26:14.864 --> 00:26:16.366
Now, it’s my life.

00:26:23.498 --> 00:26:23.999
Alright.

00:26:24.332 --> 00:26:26.543
It's a narcissistic room.

00:26:27.377 --> 00:26:30.005
I really don't care about the awards

00:26:30.005 --> 00:26:31.965
but the memory that goes with it.

00:26:32.382 --> 00:26:34.801
I am right here. This skinny guy.

00:26:36.261 --> 00:26:38.805
I'm proud of it.

00:26:38.805 --> 00:26:42.475
I've done the Strait of Gibraltar
from Spain to Morocco

00:26:43.893 --> 00:26:45.604
three times.

00:26:58.158 --> 00:26:58.533
Puberty.

00:27:01.995 --> 00:27:02.996
No, no, no.

00:27:02.996 --> 00:27:04.789
Everybody needs to learn
about each other.

00:27:04.789 --> 00:27:05.749
That's so important.

00:27:06.416 --> 00:27:07.375
Why do we feel?

00:27:07.709 --> 00:27:09.210
Aren’t you living all together?

00:27:09.586 --> 00:27:10.337
In the world?

00:27:11.713 --> 00:27:13.089
It happens to everybody.

00:27:13.882 --> 00:27:16.217
Puberty sucks, seriously

00:27:16.551 --> 00:27:17.636
I’ve been through puberty!

00:27:18.345 --> 00:27:20.096
Did you just say that
you’ve been through?

00:27:20.096 --> 00:27:21.765
Do you see my face?

00:27:21.765 --> 00:27:22.849
I have acne.

00:27:23.975 --> 00:27:27.562
FLASH is about
Family Life Sexual Health.

00:27:27.562 --> 00:27:29.898
People think it’s all about sex.

00:27:30.649 --> 00:27:33.276
But it’s so much more.

00:27:33.276 --> 00:27:35.278
It's about relationship.

00:27:36.446 --> 00:27:38.323
When I was a kid your age,

00:27:38.323 --> 00:27:41.368
I could never talk to my
parents about growing up.

00:27:41.368 --> 00:27:44.496
You talk about sexuality.
You know, everybody is sexual.

00:27:45.538 --> 00:27:46.998
But we talk to parents,

00:27:46.998 --> 00:27:48.541
we feel uncomfortable.

00:27:48.541 --> 00:27:51.086
You talk about vagina, penis.

00:27:51.086 --> 00:27:52.962
“Oh, I'm getting nervous. Oh, no.”

00:27:53.046 --> 00:27:55.340
This is a body that functions.

00:27:55.340 --> 00:27:57.884
And that's what we are, a human being.

00:27:58.843 --> 00:28:01.721
It's uncomfortable to talk about loss.

00:28:02.305 --> 00:28:05.100
So how many of you have
had family members

00:28:05.100 --> 00:28:07.310
or friends that passed away?

00:28:07.310 --> 00:28:09.145
Everybody. It happened.

00:28:09.145 --> 00:28:11.147
But guess what?
You talk to your parents.

00:28:11.147 --> 00:28:12.273
They feel uncomfortable.

00:28:12.732 --> 00:28:14.442
Sexuality and death.

00:28:14.442 --> 00:28:17.278
I like to teach those
concepts to the kids

00:28:17.612 --> 00:28:19.656
because when the kids
get to middle school,

00:28:19.656 --> 00:28:22.951
sometimes we feel as a society
that they're growing up,

00:28:22.951 --> 00:28:23.827
they're becoming adults,

00:28:23.827 --> 00:28:25.620
we let them be.

00:28:25.620 --> 00:28:27.831
And those are the times that
they need the most help.

00:28:27.831 --> 00:28:30.834
And they just get all
the false information

00:28:30.834 --> 00:28:31.918
about relationships.

00:28:32.335 --> 00:28:34.003
They're going through these changes

00:28:34.003 --> 00:28:35.338
and not understanding what

00:28:35.797 --> 00:28:37.716
life is about.

00:28:50.311 --> 00:28:50.687
Wow!

00:28:55.442 --> 00:28:57.694
Fin, Fin! Don’t get excited.

00:28:59.279 --> 00:29:00.530
It’s a big open field,

00:29:00.530 --> 00:29:02.365
probably somebody is
going to get zapped.

00:29:02.615 --> 00:29:03.366
I'm going to be short.

00:29:04.826 --> 00:29:05.702
Crouch down.

00:29:06.786 --> 00:29:09.080
Let’s see if it’s going to
come close. Look at the sky.

00:29:09.289 --> 00:29:11.040
I love the lightning.

00:29:12.292 --> 00:29:15.628
Okay, guys, pick up the
cones we're going back.

00:29:15.628 --> 00:29:19.048
The majority of my kids have
big challenges in school.

00:29:19.215 --> 00:29:21.676
Transporting 25 kids

00:29:21.676 --> 00:29:24.137
every Saturday to a game was hard.

00:29:24.179 --> 00:29:26.681
So we did not participate in the league.

00:29:26.806 --> 00:29:28.808
We would practice a lot,

00:29:28.808 --> 00:29:30.435
and then we’d take
the kids to Spring Reign.

00:29:30.435 --> 00:29:32.020
Nobody had seen them.

00:29:32.270 --> 00:29:34.564
Nobody had played game with them.

00:29:34.564 --> 00:29:36.149
These kids are just different

00:29:36.149 --> 00:29:37.942
and that's where they shine.

00:30:00.465 --> 00:30:02.717
Okay, I want you to know the field.

00:30:02.842 --> 00:30:04.636
It's different than your  school’s.

00:30:04.636 --> 00:30:06.888
Our school was narrow, short.

00:30:06.888 --> 00:30:09.349
This is a big field. Know where you are.

00:30:09.641 --> 00:30:11.601
Most of you, this is your first time,

00:30:11.601 --> 00:30:12.602
you don’t know the rules.

00:30:12.894 --> 00:30:15.939
If you disagree, you talk about it

00:30:15.939 --> 00:30:18.316
but if you’re not sure
of the rules, let it go.

00:30:32.956 --> 00:30:33.748
Who are we playing?

00:30:33.748 --> 00:30:36.626
It’s a private school and
it's a really strong team.

00:30:50.306 --> 00:30:53.142
Pio! You stay back in the end zone.

00:30:56.354 --> 00:30:57.272
Take a deep breath.

00:30:57.397 --> 00:30:59.315
When you mess up, it's not a big deal.

00:30:59.315 --> 00:31:00.608
You’re doing a great job.

00:31:00.608 --> 00:31:01.818
Just keep at it, okay?

00:31:03.361 --> 00:31:04.946
Oh, this is not good.

00:31:05.780 --> 00:31:07.323
Watch the kid in the white hat.

00:31:07.323 --> 00:31:09.951
Okay, Jazmin, watch the
second kid from left.

00:31:09.951 --> 00:31:12.203
Go, go, go! Go deep.

00:31:14.163 --> 00:31:15.999
Quickly, quickly!

00:31:24.841 --> 00:31:25.758
Send it to Nyahoak!

00:31:25.758 --> 00:31:26.301
Quick.

00:31:26.301 --> 00:31:27.719
Nyahoak, high, high!

00:31:35.852 --> 00:31:37.103
Right here!

00:31:39.522 --> 00:31:40.607
That’s awesome!

00:31:44.819 --> 00:31:46.321
You’re doing a beauitful job.

00:32:00.835 --> 00:32:01.336
Hazel!

00:32:01.836 --> 00:32:02.712
Wolf!

00:32:03.212 --> 00:32:03.713
Hazel!

00:32:04.005 --> 00:32:04.589
Wolf!

00:32:22.190 --> 00:32:23.942
Imani, good show.

00:32:26.110 --> 00:32:28.196
Don't mess it up! Nyahoak, go deep.

00:32:33.493 --> 00:32:34.869
That's all right, that's a gift.

00:32:36.204 --> 00:32:37.664
Send it!

00:32:42.418 --> 00:32:44.545
Take a couple of steps back,
let in fresh air.

00:32:44.545 --> 00:32:45.505
Thank you.

00:32:46.881 --> 00:32:48.758
They think we’re violating rules-

00:32:48.758 --> 00:32:50.051
They called me the “F word.”

00:32:50.635 --> 00:32:52.804
Okay, you do not say anything back.

00:32:52.804 --> 00:32:54.597
Respectful, respectful!

00:32:54.681 --> 00:32:57.225
The kid said “F your team” and

00:32:57.225 --> 00:32:58.518
No, don’t even listen.

00:32:58.643 --> 00:33:00.353
You guys are doing a beautiful job.

00:33:00.353 --> 00:33:01.270
This is important game.

00:33:01.270 --> 00:33:03.231
So we change our strategy. I agree.

00:33:03.231 --> 00:33:04.357
We change our strategy

00:33:04.357 --> 00:33:05.817
because of the way that
this team is playing.

00:33:06.192 --> 00:33:07.485
We use our strength

00:33:07.902 --> 00:33:09.237
and our strength is our height.

00:33:09.237 --> 00:33:11.072
Throw it high to Nyahoak.

00:33:11.614 --> 00:33:12.865
She is high. She stand up.

00:33:13.241 --> 00:33:14.534
Nobody could jump over her.

00:33:25.003 --> 00:33:26.629
I’m going to send you
deep in the end zone

00:33:26.629 --> 00:33:27.839
and Pio is going to throw it.

00:33:28.256 --> 00:33:29.215
You’re doing a great job.

00:33:30.174 --> 00:33:31.551
She needs to run faster.

00:33:31.551 --> 00:33:33.261
No, she's awesome.

00:33:33.261 --> 00:33:35.013
She's been saving us all the way.

00:34:11.507 --> 00:34:12.008
Go!

00:34:12.216 --> 00:34:12.967
Go get it!

00:34:18.806 --> 00:34:19.307
Oh!

00:34:19.307 --> 00:34:19.807
Pio!

00:34:19.807 --> 00:34:21.350
Don’t feel bad, it’s okay.

00:34:21.350 --> 00:34:22.477
The wind is against you.

00:34:22.477 --> 00:34:23.936
You got to put more power in it.

00:34:25.897 --> 00:34:26.564
Awesome.

00:34:35.281 --> 00:34:35.990
Pio go back!

00:34:36.199 --> 00:34:37.283
Pio go back!

00:34:37.283 --> 00:34:38.451
There’s no one there.

00:34:58.429 --> 00:34:59.013
Pio, Pio

00:34:59.013 --> 00:34:59.680
stay back.

00:35:02.683 --> 00:35:04.018
Guys, go deep!

00:35:06.020 --> 00:35:07.271
Oh yeah!

00:35:08.981 --> 00:35:09.899
Send it up!

00:35:09.899 --> 00:35:11.609
Send it up, deep, deep, deep.

00:35:12.026 --> 00:35:12.735
Throw it!

00:35:18.741 --> 00:35:19.992
Beautiful!

00:35:22.954 --> 00:35:23.871
Guys we won!

00:35:43.432 --> 00:35:46.185
You guys have just won
the elementary division

00:35:46.185 --> 00:35:47.999
of Spring Reign, the world's largest

00:35:48.000 --> 00:35:49.881
youth Ultimate championship
anywhere ever.

00:35:50.439 --> 00:35:54.026
And it has been for a long, long time.

00:35:54.360 --> 00:35:55.862
Congratulations.

00:36:01.200 --> 00:36:04.579
You have played so hard today,
more than ever.

00:36:04.829 --> 00:36:06.330
You did all good job.

00:36:07.165 --> 00:36:07.874
I'm proud of you.

00:36:31.230 --> 00:36:32.940
May was the last time I changed

00:36:32.940 --> 00:36:34.150
these beautiful chickens.

00:36:35.318 --> 00:36:37.111
July, August

00:36:37.111 --> 00:36:38.237
and August is gone.

00:36:43.743 --> 00:36:45.203
September is good.

00:36:45.203 --> 00:36:46.704
Anyway, that’s good.

00:37:00.009 --> 00:37:01.552
Welcome!

00:37:02.386 --> 00:37:04.680
Good morning, guys. Good morning!

00:37:04.680 --> 00:37:06.224
I am so glad you're here.

00:37:06.224 --> 00:37:07.141
You know that?

00:37:07.141 --> 00:37:07.725
Good morning.

00:37:08.976 --> 00:37:10.144
Jamshid!

00:37:10.144 --> 00:37:11.229
Good to see you!

00:37:13.397 --> 00:37:14.982
Did you get the package
for the Ultimate?

00:37:14.982 --> 00:37:15.358
No.

00:37:15.775 --> 00:37:16.692
Go get it right now.

00:37:16.692 --> 00:37:18.319
Why is he having this round thing?

00:37:18.319 --> 00:37:20.988
You need a flat ball, a flat ball!

00:37:21.864 --> 00:37:23.199
He needs a flat thing.

00:37:23.199 --> 00:37:23.824
Come on, this?

00:37:25.952 --> 00:37:26.911
Nyahoak, Nyahoak!

00:37:27.203 --> 00:37:28.704
I love your hair.

00:37:28.704 --> 00:37:29.872
Seriously!

00:37:30.665 --> 00:37:33.000
You’re the smartest kid,
get the package for Ultimate.

00:37:34.627 --> 00:37:36.003
Ran, you’re a third grader?

00:37:36.671 --> 00:37:37.505
You're going to do Ultimate.

00:37:37.713 --> 00:37:38.547
Morning!

00:37:40.383 --> 00:37:42.260
You told me to tell you of my story.

00:37:44.553 --> 00:37:45.805
Compost down there, you guys.

00:37:48.516 --> 00:37:52.353
My story is all the families,
all what affected my life,

00:37:53.771 --> 00:37:55.648
my families are a part of me.

00:37:55.982 --> 00:37:57.733
I'm part of them.

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We are community.