Traces the story of several women who left apartheid in South Africa to…
A Growing Thing
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Jabulile Ndaba is training to become a leader of a women’s project in a township near Johannesburg, South Africa. The project, Kopanang, helps women earn money through sewing and embroidery — and also enables Jabulile to learn office management skills.
Jabulile, a tall black woman with a contagious sense of humor, grew up under apartheid. Officially revoked 24 years ago, segregation in South Africa is more subtle and dangerous now because it has no name. Still today, teenage pregnancies, drug-addiction and massive unemployment in the township create never-ending crises. Jabulile is the sole provider for her large family. Her husband drinks away his earnings at the local bar. When Jabulile discovers that their teenage son has started smoking the highly addictive street drug “nyaope,” she determines to do whatever it takes to help him quit.
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Main credits
Ndaba, Jabulile Zinie (on-screen participant)
Ndaba, Sifiso (on-screen participant)
Flynn, Sheila (on-screen participant)
Gross, Sarah (film director)
Gross, Sarah (film producer)
Brummundt, Frank (editor of moving image work)
Knipfer, Luana (director of photography)
Hofmyer, Nic (director of photography)
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Edited by Frank Brummundt; directors of photography, Luana Knipfer, Nic Hofmyer.
Distributor subjects
Women's Studies, African StudiesKeywords
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Over 30 years.
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The age group.
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Over 30 and I'm a beginner, right?
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Jabulile, where do I go now?
Desktop?
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Where are you?
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There we go.
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"Welcome to the typing practice."
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To "enroll," right?
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Yeah. "Student."
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"Student. Enroll here."
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Where are you now, Mama?
-I don't know.
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Here we are again.
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Back to square one!
-It's so small, I can't see.
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Now where do I go?
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Sister Sheila?
-Yes, dear?
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These women want to start now.
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They want to take these 30 minutes
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then get their lunch by 11:00.
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They want to learn now.
-They want to learn now?
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How long do you need for
your learnings?
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I think we are going to
take those 30 minutes
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for learnings because now they are tired.
-Then they should have a break.
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I'm asking you to
make a judgement.
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You're the leader.
You need to show good leadership.
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You need to direct them.
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I think they should have a break.
But that's my feeling.
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So maybe they could have
a break until 11:15.
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Alright.
-Okay, thank you.
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Do you understand?
I'm not trying to organize your life.
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I want you to make a better...
a good decision.
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It's fucked up.
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It fell on this part?
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That tube's fucked up.
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What?
-Twin plug?
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I don't know.
Don't you have it?
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The time I started Kopanang
I didn't know anything.
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I didn't think of myself as
working in the office.
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But one day they gave me that
position to lead these people.
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I didn't apply for it.
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They choose me when I am
sewing with the other women.
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Then I ask myself:
what do they see in me
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to appoint me to be a leader?
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Maybe there is something.
I don't know.
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Good morning, beloved women.
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We will continue exploring
who we are as leaders
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and look more deeply at
the qualities of a leader.
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A Reading on Leadership:
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"If the leader does
not buy treasures,
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then the people won't
want to steal them.
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If the leader governs with vision,
then people will not go wrong.
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So in her wisdom,
she restrains herself
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by not dominating the organization,
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by keeping herself healthy and fit."
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Are there any words
we would like to clarify?
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"Ambition."
Do we know what that means?
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"Ambition" is being willing
to do something.
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If you've got ambition.
-For oneself.
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"Ambition" is to work with
a huge goal for oneself.
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Is that right?
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Jabulile, was there a word
that you wanted clarified?
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I want to ask "domination."
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Okay, what does "domination" mean?
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To take over everything.
-Absolutely.
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And to tell people what to do.
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And what's being said
and what's discussed.
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So, in an environment where
you are respected and supported,
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you actually do have
what it takes to be leaders.
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To be leaders in your families,
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to be leaders in your unit
at Kopanang
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and leaders in Kopanang.
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Always when you do your work
you must have
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tape measure, ruler, scissors
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You measure twice, cut once.
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This image must be round.
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It's a circle. Can you see it?
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It must be in the middle.
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Do you see the mistake?
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There is a deduction
for work like this.
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It is sewn in overlock
and can't be fixed.
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Next time be sure
to measure correctly.
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Wake up, man.
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Sifiso.
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Bath.
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Shall I make you a bath
so we can leave?
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Sifiso didn't go to school today
because I don't have money for transport.
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This year we didn't pay
Sifiso's school fees.
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He'll have exams in October.
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I wish that October will come.
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Then I must finish paying his fees.
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My bosom friend.
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His wife, not him.
-She doesn't live there anymore?
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His wife left him.
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She's got money.
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If you're smart, you've got money.
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Let's go then.
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We fools are stuck
because we don't have money.
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When he's drunk,
he comes from there,
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telling Sifiso how stupid he is.
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That's why I say,
"What is the role you play for Sifiso?
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You are not showing
him a right way."
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That's where
we are fighting each other...
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... about his salary.
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He gets paid and then he
drinks the money sometimes.
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And we end up not having food
here in the house.
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If he can buy us the basic things
it will be alright.
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but he is drinking too much.
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He comes back
and takes 100 rand ($7)
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and goes with it to buy liquor.
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Sometimes he comes back again
and takes more money.
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It's okay.
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But they must fix the label.
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Yes, that's nice.
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It has been passed,
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but this is going to be a deduction.
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I'm afraid of pin marks,
once this comes in.
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Yes, Sister.
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This one must be exact.
-Label is crooked.
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And the edge is not aligned.
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Do you understand?
-Yes, Sister.
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It's very important
we give them feedback
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so they know how to improve.
-Yes, and the stitches...
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... look untidy.
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Was the label crooked?
-The label was crooked.
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That's a reject.
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I'll just put "reject."
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Number 5.
-Number 5.
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Number 6.
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They are going to give you a list of...
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their visions.
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You just keep writing,
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while they are answering.
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When they are saying,
I must write it down?
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Yes, you write it down...
-At the end, I must group it in one?
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In this session, I think
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we must speak about personal visions.
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I mean...
Oh, I'm mistaken!
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What is your vision?
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Mama Frikies is saying
she wants to grow.
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How so, Mama Frikies?
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I want to grow with my work.
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You want to grow in learning?
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"Successful children"
goes together with
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"finishing school," right?
-Yes.
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Let us carry on, ladies.
What are some of your visions?
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Yes, I know, it's impossible, but,
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We think big.
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It's the vision.
This is what we wish.
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It might not happen
but we hope it does.
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We can't just turn her down.
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We can't turn her down.
That is what she thinks.
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Let us continue
-Reality.
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Yes, reality. That's true.
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That could go in the back.
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Just a few words on
how this project began...
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I stopped to give a lift to
two women under a bridge.
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One of them turned and asked,
"Do you know what it's like
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to hear your child
crying at night from hunger?"
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Something I will never
have to learn.
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I didn't know what it was like.
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I couldn't do anything
for those two women.
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But I was determined.
Perhaps we could set up something
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These women live from the
sales they make
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of the beautiful products
out in the courtyard.
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These products help them
to feed their children
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and to stand into their
own empowerment.
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It's not just that she comes from outside.
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You know, Sister Sheila...
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Everyone knows that a thing
with a white person in it
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is a growing thing.
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Some of us black people,
we destroy things.
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With jealousy, we destroy things.
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If I can be appointed
a leader of that project,
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some of the people will not like it.
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Some of them
will take their bags and leave
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because I'm the one
who's leading the project.
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Hi, Thembisile.
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Sugar.
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Food.
Oh it's on the side here.
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Do you want to come
back for the rest?
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Hi, Lucky!
-Hello, Sister Sheila!
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How are you, sweetheart?
-I'm fine and you?
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Good to see you again!
-Good to see you.
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I have some food for you.
Is Sipho home to help?
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Do you have candles?
-Sugar.
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I put it on the side.
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I think that's it.
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Thank you very much.
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Jump in.
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I must jump in on this side?
-Yes.
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I thought you must show me first.
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Must I show you first?
-You said so.
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Get on that side and
I'll quickly show you.
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1, 2, 3, 4, 5
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Check your side road.
Check. Blind spot, right.
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Just go straight here for me.
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Just come around here.
Then we'll go in here,
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and just do it from that side.
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Actually let's turn here
so we can come in from that side.
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I must go here?
-Turn right. Go in here.
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No, no, no.
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Acceleration!
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Don't stress!
-Yes, I'm learning.
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When you see that pole
at an angle like that,
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you're going to lock to the right.
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Ok?
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Cool?
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Two points every time.
-If it says, "Grrr."
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Two points you lose
for gear scratching.
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Where's Granny?
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Where's Granny?
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"Nyaope" is this thing they smoke.
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And now Sifiso is doing some of it.
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I don't see him but I feel...
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And I hear other people saying
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that Sifiso is smoking something.
Something I don't know.
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He is addicted already,
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but he is not at this point
of stealing our things in the house.
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To sell it to buy this drug.
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All his friends use it.
All of them!
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They say they mix
chemicals with Ratex.
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It's rat poison.
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Who made this?
-Bridget.
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Look how beautiful it is.
-It's lovely. Look at this.
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Please put it away
before we find a mistake.
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She's telling the truth!
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Look hard enough and
you'll find a mistake!
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We give you a chance
to sew a cushion or a frame.
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One week is enough time.
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When I have to hand out work
it's hard for them to take it.
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They say they can't do it.
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Even if someone didn't do a good job,
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you mustn't tell her
in a rough way.
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It's good to say, "This is wrong,"
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in a right way,
in order to protect the project.
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There is a box in the office
full of rejects.
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Because you are scared to say,
"Samantha, you are wrong here."
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Let us be honest.
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Because...
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Who's this? Oh, Sizakele...
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"It's fine."
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It's wrong, wrong, wrong!
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You wrote the point on the wall
for years but nothing changes!
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It takes years to
change a leopard's spots.
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People might get hurt
if we force them to change,
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if we put pressure on them to change.
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We are trying to make a change.
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Lucky is right that people
shouldn't write their names.
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I'll tell my group.
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When they do quality check
they shouldn't look at the name.
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Or they shouldn't write their names at all.
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This thing must stop.
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Hello!
-Granny!
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Ready for the bank?
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I've got papers. Everything's in.
-Have you got your I.D.?
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Yes, I've got my I.D.
-Mine is at home.
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At home?
-Yes, Sister.
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Jabulile, when we go to the bank
we always need our I.D.
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I didn't know we were going
to the bank.
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You didn't hear,
because it was spoken.
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This happened last time.
Did you have your I.D. last time?
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No, and you knew
we were going to the bank.
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Something has to change
when we're responsible for things.
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I'm going to change, Sister,
but I didn't know, really.
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You knew last time
and didn't have your I.D.
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when we went to the bank before.
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When you got here,
you didn't have your I.D.
00:26:00.880 --> 00:26:04.400
Then we went home
and you couldn't get inside
00:26:04.560 --> 00:26:06.960
then you tried
to phone your daughter.
00:26:07.440 --> 00:26:10.000
What do we need to do...
00:26:11.280 --> 00:26:14.640
to make sure we are
the strong leaders of Kopanang?
00:26:14.800 --> 00:26:16.920
So what's going to change?
00:27:03.720 --> 00:27:06.160
We need to get some money.
00:27:07.880 --> 00:27:09.760
It's not that much.
00:27:09.920 --> 00:27:12.160
Give it all here,
we will make it enough.
00:27:12.880 --> 00:27:15.640
John, give us a paper.
00:27:16.200 --> 00:27:18.440
Give us a razor.
Now you know us.
00:27:18.760 --> 00:27:21.440
Guys! Weed!
Charlie, do something!
00:27:21.600 --> 00:27:24.120
This is the last weed.
00:27:26.480 --> 00:27:28.840
We have to go
make some money.
00:27:29.000 --> 00:27:31.280
Where is it?
We still need weed here.
00:27:32.880 --> 00:27:35.240
You have to hustle
if you want to smoke.
00:27:35.560 --> 00:27:38.040
I have nothing, guy.
Please let me smoke!
00:27:39.400 --> 00:27:41.720
Do I have to go steal?
00:27:42.200 --> 00:27:46.200
You're selfish.
I'm in pain and he won't let me smoke!
00:27:46.360 --> 00:27:48.680
Let me smoke, guys!
00:28:25.680 --> 00:28:29.200
As leaders in Kopanang,
can you stand in the truth?
00:28:29.360 --> 00:28:31.280
Yes, I can.
-Yes.
00:28:33.080 --> 00:28:36.520
I don't know if I believe you.
-You can.
00:28:36.680 --> 00:28:39.120
Why?
-I don't know if I believe you.
00:28:39.760 --> 00:28:42.680
Because it came up that it's hard
00:28:43.000 --> 00:28:45.600
to give honest feedback
to our members.
00:28:45.800 --> 00:28:50.280
This is crucial for the
functioning of an organization.
00:28:50.600 --> 00:28:55.800
Sometimes members don't respect
00:28:55.960 --> 00:28:59.160
the person who'll be taking over.
00:28:59.320 --> 00:29:02.320
They won't listen
to what you are thinking.
00:29:02.480 --> 00:29:04.680
when you put ideas on the table.
00:29:05.720 --> 00:29:08.640
They say, "No, Sister Sheila
said you must do it like this."
00:29:08.800 --> 00:29:12.320
Other members even went out and say,
00:29:12.480 --> 00:29:16.040
"I'm not going to do it
as Jabulile is telling me
00:29:16.200 --> 00:29:18.760
because Sister Sheila said so."
00:29:19.280 --> 00:29:21.880
The members we're working with
00:29:22.040 --> 00:29:25.720
some tell themselves,
00:29:25.880 --> 00:29:31.040
"I can't be told by some so-and-so.
Who is she?"
00:29:31.400 --> 00:29:35.400
We face a challenge...
-You face a challenge of...
00:29:35.640 --> 00:29:38.240
of disciplining your members
00:29:38.400 --> 00:29:41.280
who see you
as somebody who's equal
00:29:41.440 --> 00:29:44.440
and not above them
in the leadership.
00:29:44.600 --> 00:29:47.240
Then it's difficult
to stand in your truth.
00:29:47.400 --> 00:29:49.160
Yes.
-Okay.
00:29:49.880 --> 00:29:54.600
If we're having difficulties with colleagues
and they are not hearing our leadership,
00:29:54.760 --> 00:29:57.960
we've got to work at
saying "no" with love.
00:29:58.160 --> 00:30:00.000
And insisting.
00:30:01.800 --> 00:30:06.080
That's the mental toughness
you've got to start acting on.
00:30:15.600 --> 00:30:18.600
Say, "I'm going to my mother."
00:30:22.960 --> 00:30:25.040
What is she doing?
00:30:25.960 --> 00:30:27.600
Oh, Zenande!
00:30:28.720 --> 00:30:30.840
Hit her, Zenande!
00:30:31.000 --> 00:30:33.120
Hit her!
00:30:33.280 --> 00:30:35.680
Mama's not paying you any attention.
00:30:35.880 --> 00:30:39.000
You should be relaxing now.
00:30:59.160 --> 00:31:02.400
Sister Sheila, on Monday
00:31:03.080 --> 00:31:06.520
I had two calls from members
00:31:06.680 --> 00:31:10.040
to request if they could be
00:31:10.200 --> 00:31:13.200
part of the food parcels
00:31:13.360 --> 00:31:15.600
to receive some food.
00:31:15.920 --> 00:31:18.560
They are not keeping
well in their families.
00:31:18.720 --> 00:31:21.200
What do you think
of those requests?
00:31:21.360 --> 00:31:25.920
I told them it's for
the most disadvantaged people
00:31:26.080 --> 00:31:28.200
who have no income at all.
00:31:28.360 --> 00:31:31.600
We have to keep it going
for those who need it the most.
00:31:31.920 --> 00:31:34.920
At the moment,
I can't promise anything.
00:31:35.240 --> 00:31:37.960
That's why we decided
to leave it till September.
00:31:38.280 --> 00:31:41.280
Is that a team decision then?
-Yes, the team agreed
00:31:41.440 --> 00:31:46.520
that Majotso gets
two liters oil and cornmeal.
00:31:47.080 --> 00:31:49.120
Planning overseas trips...
00:31:49.280 --> 00:31:51.880
Jabulile and I will
be going to Australia!
00:31:57.000 --> 00:32:00.280
We'll go to the school
that's been sponsoring us.
00:32:00.440 --> 00:32:03.360
We will do a presentation
to the funders.
00:32:06.000 --> 00:32:09.040
You can talk from a
personal point of view.
00:32:09.400 --> 00:32:11.920
You're going to be
in the limelight, dear.
00:32:12.720 --> 00:32:15.160
Sheila's going to step back.
She'll retire.
00:32:15.320 --> 00:32:18.840
She must!
-That's a nice one.
00:32:20.160 --> 00:32:23.520
I sat with Jabulile
and I explained to her
00:32:23.680 --> 00:32:26.280
that we are doing evaluations.
00:32:26.920 --> 00:32:29.840
There are challenges
a little bit of weakness
00:32:30.360 --> 00:32:33.480
something that you need to grow from
and work on.
00:32:34.200 --> 00:32:38.920
What actions will you put in place
to help you meet those challenges?
00:32:39.720 --> 00:32:43.000
Sometimes I write in my diary,
00:32:43.160 --> 00:32:48.040
only to find that
I opened the page and wrote.
00:32:48.200 --> 00:32:51.000
When I want it,
it's on some other page
00:32:51.160 --> 00:32:54.520
and I don't know: "Where did I write it?"
That's my problem.
00:32:54.680 --> 00:32:56.680
Sometimes you tell me something,
00:32:57.000 --> 00:33:00.120
I wrote it
but I don't know where.
00:33:00.280 --> 00:33:03.240
That is my problem.
-How can you make that better?
00:33:03.560 --> 00:33:07.720
Sister Sheila,
I must write it on that date.
00:33:08.560 --> 00:33:10.840
And we know that you can do it.
00:33:11.000 --> 00:33:13.480
We're all on a learning curve.
00:33:32.000 --> 00:33:36.080
I have to return this
before she sees I took it.
00:33:36.960 --> 00:33:38.440
That's how it is.
00:33:38.840 --> 00:33:40.720
I'm hungry.
00:33:41.080 --> 00:33:42.560
You're hungry?
00:33:42.720 --> 00:33:44.800
Just think: the whole day...
00:33:45.400 --> 00:33:47.280
Where were you then?
00:33:48.200 --> 00:33:49.960
Good afternoon.
-How are you?
00:33:50.200 --> 00:33:52.320
Fine, thanks. And you?
00:33:53.000 --> 00:33:55.680
Sifiso took 50 rand from my child
00:33:56.000 --> 00:33:58.720
and gave him a broken phone.
00:33:58.880 --> 00:34:01.320
I told my son to return the phone to him.
00:34:01.640 --> 00:34:05.760
Sifiso said, "I will bring the money.
The money is at home.
00:34:05.920 --> 00:34:08.800
The money...this. The money...that."
00:34:11.480 --> 00:34:12.960
Sifiso!
00:34:13.400 --> 00:34:15.400
Where is the phone?
00:34:15.960 --> 00:34:18.080
Will you return her money?
00:34:18.720 --> 00:34:23.120
Should I go fetch my husband?
I have been asking for a long time.
00:34:23.360 --> 00:34:25.920
I want my money.
You hear me?
00:34:26.240 --> 00:34:29.480
I've never been so
disrespected by a child!
00:34:29.640 --> 00:34:33.200
Now I meet him...
-This person swore at me on the road.
00:34:33.360 --> 00:34:36.840
She called me a dog.
I don't know what she wants today.
00:34:37.000 --> 00:34:41.320
I don't want anything!
-Mom, Sifiso is acting wrong.
00:34:41.640 --> 00:34:44.800
How can you hurt
your mother like this?
00:34:46.360 --> 00:34:51.360
You shouldn't have
sold him a phone.
00:34:51.720 --> 00:34:56.560
You are the older one.
Who cares if he asked you.
00:35:21.440 --> 00:35:22.720
Greetings.
00:35:23.040 --> 00:35:25.240
How are you?
-We are fine, mama. And you?
00:35:25.400 --> 00:35:27.480
Where is Sifiso?
Have you seen him?
00:35:27.640 --> 00:35:30.240
Sifiso is not here, mama.
00:35:30.400 --> 00:35:32.400
I saw him here earlier...
00:35:35.360 --> 00:35:37.640
Seems like they went to a job.
00:35:38.480 --> 00:35:40.200
A job?
00:35:40.880 --> 00:35:43.000
On which side?
-I don't know.
00:35:46.160 --> 00:35:49.360
When you see him,
tell him I am looking for him.
00:35:57.200 --> 00:36:00.760
I am sick and tired of this child.
Really, I am!
00:36:16.080 --> 00:36:17.600
Hi there!
00:36:21.360 --> 00:36:24.600
This is the rest
to take on the plane.
00:36:26.160 --> 00:36:30.200
Drag it out.
-When I have stress like this...
00:36:31.840 --> 00:36:34.760
... to ask myself,
what am I going to wear?
00:36:34.920 --> 00:36:38.160
You don't need to worry.
That's not the biggest thing.
00:36:38.800 --> 00:36:42.480
You might need to look inside there.
-Oh my God!
00:36:44.000 --> 00:36:45.520
Wow!
00:36:47.160 --> 00:36:49.120
How much is this, Sister Sheila?
00:36:49.280 --> 00:36:51.360
It's about 1,500 rand.
Spending money.
00:36:51.520 --> 00:36:54.000
1.5 in South African?
-1,500 ZAR ($105)
00:36:54.200 --> 00:36:55.920
Wow!
00:36:57.760 --> 00:36:59.880
For you to do what you want with.
00:37:00.960 --> 00:37:03.320
Thank you so much!
00:37:05.120 --> 00:37:07.280
Oh, Sister Sheila!
00:37:17.760 --> 00:37:21.600
You're going to look gorgeous.
Better watch out for the men over there!
00:37:21.760 --> 00:37:23.880
They'll be after you.
00:37:26.040 --> 00:37:29.280
Thank you so much, Sister Sheila.
I don't know what to say.
00:37:31.200 --> 00:37:34.320
Just keep doing
all you can for Kopanang.
00:38:03.960 --> 00:38:06.360
So, seven are listed.
-Yes.
00:38:06.520 --> 00:38:08.640
Now she's going to bring two more.
00:38:09.160 --> 00:38:12.000
Are you sure? You positive?
-Yes, Sister Sheila.
00:38:12.840 --> 00:38:16.320
Is it on this list?
-No, it's not on this list.
00:38:16.480 --> 00:38:22.080
It's on another list.
-Silindile will make a payslip for it.
00:38:22.680 --> 00:38:25.840
Are we crossing this off?
We have to make decisions now.
00:38:26.040 --> 00:38:30.720
We just have to accept the fact
the we haven't managed to complete this.
00:38:30.880 --> 00:38:33.200
Could you pass me the ruler, please?
00:38:36.320 --> 00:38:39.960
They are busy sewing it.
I asked them to sew it.
00:38:40.120 --> 00:38:44.160
On Monday,
you knew the job wasn't complete.
00:38:44.320 --> 00:38:48.200
I know and I asked them to do it...
00:38:48.640 --> 00:38:52.360
Can I ask you why it was left so late
that we're chasing this?
00:38:54.360 --> 00:38:56.640
Again we've got chaos.
00:38:56.840 --> 00:39:00.120
We're still not pushing people
to finish jobs on time,
00:39:00.440 --> 00:39:02.600
which is the leadership role.
00:39:04.240 --> 00:39:07.480
I try so hard that
we don't end up in this chaos
00:39:07.640 --> 00:39:10.480
and we end up in it every time.
00:39:18.400 --> 00:39:20.640
Can we go through this list?
00:39:21.880 --> 00:39:25.960
Two are coming in now?
-Yes, tomorrow.
00:39:26.120 --> 00:39:28.520
How many frames are available?
00:39:28.760 --> 00:39:31.840
I don't have any.
00:39:33.840 --> 00:39:36.560
We don't have any square mats?
00:39:37.520 --> 00:39:41.160
We don't have it.
-This is a disaster.
00:40:05.560 --> 00:40:09.280
Can you please check
what I weigh on the scale?
00:40:09.640 --> 00:40:15.280
Then you hand me the bag
while I am on the scale.
00:40:16.240 --> 00:40:18.720
First you have to be on the scale.
00:40:27.880 --> 00:40:30.480
Check what the scale says now.
00:40:36.280 --> 00:40:38.360
114.3.
00:40:39.200 --> 00:40:42.680
That means it is 114.3
00:41:39.800 --> 00:41:43.400
I just need a few details
from you here.
00:41:44.360 --> 00:41:47.160
Start with email and post code.
00:41:47.320 --> 00:41:50.840
Signature at the bottom
-I don't have email
00:41:51.040 --> 00:41:53.560
It's okay. I'll write it for you.
This is for her...
00:41:53.720 --> 00:41:55.720
It's just to sign in.
00:41:55.880 --> 00:41:58.360
Do you have plans for
the next four days?
00:41:58.520 --> 00:42:00.960
We have a conference.
-A conference? Okay.
00:42:02.520 --> 00:42:04.680
"State" is South Africa?
00:42:07.600 --> 00:42:10.680
Here, I must write "South Africa"?
00:42:17.360 --> 00:42:20.520
Ready to go.
Have you on the 17th floor.
00:42:20.800 --> 00:42:22.920
7th?
-17th.
00:42:25.600 --> 00:42:27.920
The lifts are over there.
00:42:28.080 --> 00:42:30.600
Breakfast is open between
6:30 and 10:30 a.m.
00:42:30.760 --> 00:42:34.240
Pool and gym are
open from 6 a.m. to 9 p.m.
00:42:35.880 --> 00:42:38.600
If you have questions
please give us a call.
00:42:38.840 --> 00:42:43.120
No, I don't have a question.
I don't know what to say.
00:44:47.840 --> 00:44:50.120
There is a train.
00:44:50.640 --> 00:44:53.400
But it's not too long
like our train.
00:45:01.280 --> 00:45:05.960
A special welcome to
those of you from outside Australia.
00:45:06.400 --> 00:45:10.240
We had the pope speaking
to us as Catholic leaders.
00:45:10.560 --> 00:45:13.000
He asked us a question:
00:45:13.200 --> 00:45:17.520
"Are you institutions of mercy?
Do you deal with the poor?
00:45:17.680 --> 00:45:21.360
Do you deal with
the socially disadvantaged?
00:45:21.520 --> 00:45:24.520
Where are you with those
who are marginalized?"
00:45:24.760 --> 00:45:27.520
And it's question I'll ask all of you:
00:45:27.680 --> 00:45:31.040
Are your schools
"schools of mercy"?
00:45:41.520 --> 00:45:43.840
Are we joining you?
-Please do
00:45:44.680 --> 00:45:47.000
Good morning, Jabulile.
-Hello, how are you?
00:45:47.160 --> 00:45:49.480
How are you?
-Fine, and you?
00:45:50.680 --> 00:45:53.240
Jabulile, do you live near
to where Sheila was?
00:45:53.400 --> 00:45:58.280
Yeah. Sister Sheila lives in Tsakane
and I live in Geluksdal.
00:45:58.480 --> 00:46:02.920
It's where the "colored" people live.
00:46:03.440 --> 00:46:05.680
Do you feel safe at night?
00:46:05.840 --> 00:46:08.280
No, it's not safe.
00:46:08.440 --> 00:46:10.920
We don't go outside at night.
00:46:11.400 --> 00:46:13.640
Especially now.
00:46:13.960 --> 00:46:18.840
People were getting raped
in the toilets outside in the night.
00:46:19.000 --> 00:46:21.960
So now we are afraid to go outside.
00:46:26.560 --> 00:46:30.800
We complained about something.
They didn't take notice.
00:46:31.160 --> 00:46:38.680
In South Africa, sometimes when we tell
our government to do something for us,
00:46:38.840 --> 00:46:40.680
they don't listen.
00:46:40.840 --> 00:46:43.320
This ANC now, it's powerless.
00:46:43.520 --> 00:46:45.760
What do you mean, "powerless"?
00:46:45.920 --> 00:46:48.760
Because when Mandela was president,
00:46:49.600 --> 00:46:52.400
he said he'd give us free housing.
00:46:52.600 --> 00:46:55.360
But now, there's nothing happening.
00:46:56.040 --> 00:47:00.400
The township municipality
is suddenly doing things, aren't they?
00:47:00.720 --> 00:47:03.600
Are they fixing things?
-They are doing it now,
00:47:05.160 --> 00:47:08.200
but after elections,
everything is gone.
00:47:10.040 --> 00:47:12.440
Could you ever dream of the possibility
00:47:12.760 --> 00:47:15.440
that one of the women of Kopanang,
like you,
00:47:15.600 --> 00:47:19.000
could stand
for the local municipal government?
00:47:20.160 --> 00:47:23.440
Yeah, maybe some of us will.
00:47:23.600 --> 00:47:25.240
That's what you need.
00:47:33.960 --> 00:47:36.920
Do you have the price list, please?
00:47:42.040 --> 00:47:44.800
Did you see where
I put my price list?
00:47:47.160 --> 00:47:49.720
This old age of mine...
00:47:53.680 --> 00:47:55.760
Here it is.
-Okay.
00:48:09.680 --> 00:48:12.160
Do we need another table?
-I think we will.
00:48:13.160 --> 00:48:16.640
Will you give us another one?
-Sorry?
00:48:16.800 --> 00:48:20.240
Will you have another table?
-We have more...
00:48:20.880 --> 00:48:24.680
I've been sent to find out
how many tables we need.
00:48:27.760 --> 00:48:30.560
Okay, let me go and ask...
00:48:31.960 --> 00:48:33.840
Where is Sister Sheila?
00:48:34.160 --> 00:48:36.200
... This quest for a better future.
00:48:36.480 --> 00:48:39.760
At Kopanang,
women who had no voice,
00:48:39.960 --> 00:48:44.920
who had physical and emotional
violence from their partners...
00:48:45.240 --> 00:48:47.960
They are finding their voice now
00:48:48.360 --> 00:48:53.760
Our Catholic institutions can interrogate
what life is meant to mean for all of us,
00:48:53.920 --> 00:48:56.040
not just the privileged few,
00:48:56.200 --> 00:48:59.760
instead of being part of
this competitive, conquering world.
00:49:00.200 --> 00:49:04.200
Perhaps our position today
would be to engage with our students,
00:49:04.360 --> 00:49:08.040
to critique the corporations
whose sole end is profit
00:49:08.200 --> 00:49:12.080
and the excessive consumerism
which locks laborers
00:49:12.480 --> 00:49:15.920
into a cycle of poverty
from which there is no escape.
00:49:16.080 --> 00:49:19.640
And I say this in the awareness
of what is at stake for our women
00:49:19.800 --> 00:49:22.120
that I am privileged
to walk with.
00:49:22.640 --> 00:49:25.200
The sooner we can develop
new structures
00:49:25.400 --> 00:49:28.360
that support the evolution
of global humanity
00:49:28.520 --> 00:49:31.880
the closer we will come
to reaching God's dream in us.
00:49:32.040 --> 00:49:34.000
We will dismantle privilege
00:49:34.200 --> 00:49:38.040
into compassionate service
where everything thrives.
00:49:38.240 --> 00:49:39.800
Thank you.
00:49:46.240 --> 00:49:49.400
And this pen...
If you want to,
00:49:49.560 --> 00:49:53.480
when it's finished, you can take it
out and put another one inside.
00:49:53.640 --> 00:49:57.160
Yes, another one inside.
-It's only $6.00.
00:49:57.320 --> 00:49:58.880
$6.00?
-Yes.
00:50:00.760 --> 00:50:02.760
How much is it?
-45.
00:50:02.920 --> 00:50:04.800
45 dollars?
-Yes.
00:50:13.240 --> 00:50:16.120
This goes together, ma'am.
-Oh, do they?
00:50:16.280 --> 00:50:19.640
Yes.
This, this... four of them
00:50:20.480 --> 00:50:24.000
Can you demonstrate that apron again?
-Yes, ma'am.
00:50:33.280 --> 00:50:35.000
Oh wow!
00:50:39.400 --> 00:50:41.240
What a great idea!
00:50:41.520 --> 00:50:44.080
There's pockets
on the inside
00:50:44.360 --> 00:50:46.320
That's the potholder!
00:50:46.480 --> 00:50:49.760
When you get things out of the oven.
-Isn't it great!
00:51:01.120 --> 00:51:03.960
Sister Sheila told me to go buy food.
00:51:05.960 --> 00:51:08.560
She was busy.
00:51:09.440 --> 00:51:12.080
They were in session.
00:51:12.240 --> 00:51:15.120
She had to stay with them.
00:51:17.120 --> 00:51:20.760
I'm the one who didn't want
to go and buy food.
00:51:27.200 --> 00:51:31.400
When I came here I realized
that I can't walk that way alone.
00:52:19.120 --> 00:52:22.800
It's either prawns, beef
or cheese starter.
00:52:23.520 --> 00:52:27.840
Then either fish fillet
or lamb shoulder.
00:52:28.280 --> 00:52:32.160
Can I give you all three?
-Not all three!
00:52:32.320 --> 00:52:34.400
Go on.
-Try it!
00:52:34.560 --> 00:52:37.800
Try.
-If you don't like it, you leave it.
00:52:38.200 --> 00:52:40.880
Especially that one.
-That one is like an omelette
00:52:41.520 --> 00:52:44.480
That one is like an omelette.
00:52:45.360 --> 00:52:47.320
Bon appetit!
00:52:47.760 --> 00:52:50.800
If you don't like anything,
you don't have to finish it.
00:52:50.960 --> 00:52:53.560
You can just leave it on your plate.
00:52:57.920 --> 00:53:00.760
Sister Sheila?
I wish I could tell these people
00:53:01.120 --> 00:53:03.760
to buy all the stuff.
00:53:06.440 --> 00:53:09.200
Tell these people what?
-To buy all the stuff.
00:53:09.360 --> 00:53:10.840
Yes!
00:53:53.000 --> 00:53:55.680
Here it is afternoon. Around 1 p.m.
00:53:57.680 --> 00:54:00.320
I'm going to sleep. It's night.
00:54:01.960 --> 00:54:05.040
I'm sure it's 9 pm.
00:54:05.880 --> 00:54:06.840
Wow!
00:54:07.000 --> 00:54:09.840
What's wrong?
You don't sound exited.
00:54:10.000 --> 00:54:14.240
Oh, I am so excited.
You will see my pictures, sister!
00:54:14.760 --> 00:54:17.120
Where have I been?
To the beach.
00:54:17.280 --> 00:54:19.200
Serious?
-Yes!
00:54:20.320 --> 00:54:22.240
Hear that!
00:54:22.400 --> 00:54:24.600
I'm telling you!
00:54:26.160 --> 00:54:27.800
Bring us presents.
00:54:27.960 --> 00:54:31.440
Things are expensive here.
00:54:31.920 --> 00:54:34.360
That money, do you still have it?
00:54:35.840 --> 00:54:38.200
Is it finished?
-Still have it.
00:54:38.360 --> 00:54:43.360
Sifiso has been saying that...
Make him stop his lies.
00:54:43.680 --> 00:54:46.680
Don't tell me anything bad.
00:54:46.840 --> 00:54:49.000
Tell me when I'm back.
00:54:49.320 --> 00:54:52.240
No, it's nothing painful.
It's what he always does.
00:54:55.200 --> 00:54:57.640
All right, okay.
00:55:21.440 --> 00:55:24.880
Welcome, friends of Kopanang!
We have special guests here tonight,
00:55:25.200 --> 00:55:29.480
one of which you all know,
Sister Sheila, at the back there.
00:55:29.880 --> 00:55:33.320
Jabulile Ndaba, who is representing
the community of Kopanang.
00:55:33.640 --> 00:55:37.720
She is one of the Kopanang women,
who are developing their leadership skills
00:55:38.040 --> 00:55:42.080
and hopefully one day will take over
the running of the Kopanang project.
00:55:42.400 --> 00:55:44.320
Hope you enjoy the evening.
00:55:44.480 --> 00:55:48.080
I'd like to ask Jabulile
to say grace for us tonight.
00:57:25.080 --> 00:57:26.600
Here. Here.
00:57:32.840 --> 00:57:36.840
Smile as if you're very excited
at all their wonderful things.
00:57:37.080 --> 00:57:39.600
5, 4, 3, 2, 1!
00:57:42.520 --> 00:57:44.040
Babies?
00:57:44.320 --> 00:57:46.160
These are beautiful.
00:57:46.880 --> 00:57:50.400
"Fire by Big Nuz is hot.
00:57:50.840 --> 00:57:58.400
Don't come near it!"
00:57:58.760 --> 00:58:00.560
Look I'm throwing, too.
00:58:00.760 --> 00:58:02.520
No, don't!
00:58:03.760 --> 00:58:05.760
Leather skin.
00:58:07.760 --> 00:58:10.640
Look, Silindile, leather jackets!
00:58:13.360 --> 00:58:15.600
We're going to wear leather.
00:58:20.680 --> 00:58:23.080
How is it, ladies?
Am I beautiful?
00:58:24.000 --> 00:58:26.160
I am beautiful?
00:58:26.600 --> 00:58:28.960
What have I done to myself?
00:58:31.760 --> 00:58:33.520
Plus size, mama.
00:58:36.400 --> 00:58:38.680
Sheila is trying them on!
00:58:40.720 --> 00:58:43.720
My load is heavy
-No window shopping, we're unpacking!
00:58:45.080 --> 00:58:47.880
Please help me carry it
00:59:28.800 --> 00:59:31.840
Granny, number two.
I washed my hands.
00:59:32.280 --> 00:59:34.720
I just drank some water.
00:59:45.720 --> 00:59:48.440
There is a back page.
00:59:52.120 --> 00:59:55.760
Please, if I struggle a bit
be patient with me.
00:59:57.400 --> 00:59:59.800
You have to be patient with us, too.
00:59:59.960 --> 01:00:03.160
I will.
-We've been a team for a long time.
01:00:03.320 --> 01:00:06.760
I am grateful when they
are patient with me.
01:00:06.920 --> 01:00:10.960
Because when I'm going away
I've got so much to do
01:00:11.120 --> 01:00:13.120
in preparation for leaving.
01:00:13.280 --> 01:00:16.120
And I can get uptight.
01:00:16.560 --> 01:00:20.800
Remember when I asked you
when you thought you'd be ready
01:00:20.960 --> 01:00:23.920
to take over
the full management of the project,
01:00:24.080 --> 01:00:26.240
and you said "November"?
01:00:26.520 --> 01:00:29.040
Okay...
-Yes, yes-
01:00:29.720 --> 01:00:32.800
Do you remember that? November.
-Yes!
01:00:34.240 --> 01:00:36.280
Has it happened?
01:00:38.880 --> 01:00:40.800
I don't know.
01:00:41.400 --> 01:00:43.800
I think it has improved.
01:00:48.520 --> 01:00:51.680
No, not fully, I would say.
01:00:53.240 --> 01:00:55.880
Not fully, but we're nearly there.
01:01:00.200 --> 01:01:03.040
If I was to walk out today
what would happen?
01:01:09.360 --> 01:01:11.360
Are you ready for that?
01:01:11.920 --> 01:01:15.240
If I don't come back on the 8th?
Are you ready?
01:01:16.000 --> 01:01:18.320
To be honest I can say, not fully.
01:01:18.520 --> 01:01:23.560
Because I prepared all of this and,
although I gave you plenty of time,
01:01:23.880 --> 01:01:26.440
you didn't actually contribute to it,
01:01:26.600 --> 01:01:29.440
except at the very end
when I pushed you.
01:01:29.760 --> 01:01:33.520
That shouldn't be the case.
It's my hope that you do the work
01:01:33.840 --> 01:01:38.200
and take over the project
so I can step right back.
01:02:20.720 --> 01:02:24.120
Sister Sheila will only
come back on the 11th.
01:02:24.280 --> 01:02:27.240
But the thing is, we are Kopanang.
01:02:28.800 --> 01:02:32.080
Let's make sure we help one another.
01:02:32.480 --> 01:02:36.760
How can we take Kopanang
to another level?
01:02:36.920 --> 01:02:40.640
Where we know nobody
can take Kopanang away from us.
01:02:41.560 --> 01:02:43.320
Do you remember last year
01:02:43.480 --> 01:02:47.040
when the immersion group was here,
the Santa Sabena College?
01:02:47.200 --> 01:02:51.160
They went home,
and eventually everyone got involved
01:02:51.360 --> 01:02:54.440
in collecting clothing for Kopanang.
01:02:54.760 --> 01:02:56.800
There is so much.
01:02:56.960 --> 01:02:59.440
There is plenty for everyone.
01:02:59.640 --> 01:03:03.440
And do not worry about
coming in first or last.
01:03:04.760 --> 01:03:07.520
There's nothing... really!
01:03:07.800 --> 01:03:10.520
I'm on the hot seat!
01:03:11.640 --> 01:03:13.880
I'm still talking, ladies.
01:03:14.040 --> 01:03:16.320
The excitement is pushing you,
isn't it?
01:03:16.800 --> 01:03:56.400
So we don't have to be greedy.
01:03:56.560 --> 01:03:58.400
Hello, Jabu.
-Hi.
01:03:58.560 --> 01:04:00.320
What's up?
-I'm fine and you?
01:04:00.480 --> 01:04:02.800
Sharp, sharp, man.
-Thanks.
01:04:03.120 --> 01:04:05.400
A little bit of petrol.
01:04:05.720 --> 01:04:08.400
Fuck! Stop, stop!
Leave the petrol.
01:04:09.200 --> 01:04:11.400
Take a breath. Relax.
01:04:13.040 --> 01:04:15.680
Rev the car.
Don't get fucked. Don't roll.
01:04:15.840 --> 01:04:16.720
Stop.
01:04:17.520 --> 01:04:19.640
Gear. Clutch in. Gear.
01:04:20.680 --> 01:04:22.800
First balance.
01:04:23.200 --> 01:04:25.520
Petrol, petrol!
01:04:27.400 --> 01:04:29.160
Balance.
01:04:29.880 --> 01:04:32.080
Balance. Petrol.
01:04:32.240 --> 01:04:34.800
Slowly with the clutch.
Petrol. Release.
01:04:36.120 --> 01:04:37.840
Just relax.
01:04:38.000 --> 01:04:40.120
Now don't tell me you can't.
01:04:40.280 --> 01:04:41.800
Petrol.
01:04:41.960 --> 01:04:44.440
Release handbrake.
Slowly with the clutch.
01:04:44.600 --> 01:04:47.000
Too late with your hand brake.
01:04:47.560 --> 01:04:49.560
Start the car.
01:04:51.640 --> 01:04:54.320
Balance, balance...
01:04:56.160 --> 01:04:59.040
Petrol, petrol...
01:04:59.560 --> 01:05:02.320
What the fuck!
Did you see now, Jabs?
01:05:02.480 --> 01:05:05.520
You can do this! Understand?
01:05:07.040 --> 01:05:09.240
Okay, high five.
01:05:29.840 --> 01:05:32.080
What's wrong with you?
01:05:37.400 --> 01:05:39.360
You don't want to
give me 15 rand ($1)?
01:05:39.520 --> 01:05:41.440
I don't have it, Sifiso.
01:05:41.760 --> 01:05:44.360
My faith is tested.
-He's not serious.
01:05:45.120 --> 01:05:47.080
Addiction...
01:05:47.680 --> 01:05:51.960
It's all about telling yourself
that you want to quit.
01:05:55.360 --> 01:05:57.960
What do you want
from me, Sifiso?
01:05:59.560 --> 01:06:02.080
I told you that
I don't have any money.
01:06:02.960 --> 01:06:06.360
I said you should
go to the hospital.
01:06:07.800 --> 01:06:11.560
Now you won't go
even if we take you there.
01:06:11.720 --> 01:06:15.360
You are the one smoking.
There's nothing I can do.
01:06:17.880 --> 01:06:20.400
Ntombi has money.
01:06:21.280 --> 01:06:24.080
It's hers. Not mine.
01:06:26.840 --> 01:06:29.920
It's not mine.
I don't have it.
01:06:34.080 --> 01:06:36.000
Don't bother me now.
01:06:36.320 --> 01:06:38.640
Not when I'm this mad.
01:06:38.840 --> 01:06:41.880
I can ruin your day.
01:07:09.360 --> 01:07:12.200
We'll put you in a taxi to the clinic.
-And leave me there?
01:07:12.360 --> 01:07:13.360
Yes.
01:07:13.520 --> 01:07:15.800
I'll go by myself.
-When will you go?
01:07:15.960 --> 01:07:19.760
I'll go now.
I'm telling you, I'll go soon.
01:07:21.720 --> 01:07:23.960
Then what are you waiting for?
01:07:26.080 --> 01:07:27.800
No, no.
01:07:28.000 --> 01:07:31.200
I am going to go live
on the streets.
01:07:32.080 --> 01:07:34.200
That's what you should do.
01:07:34.520 --> 01:07:39.000
That would be 100